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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]What your suggesting is essentially infrequent trial-and-error by one partner without guidance from the other. You gave us "affection, touching, cuddling, etc" as the keys to your vagina[/quote]

no - what I'm suggesting is that you think of her body as more than just her vagina.  [/quote]

That's a pretty nebulous instruction.  Again- most guys would appreciate "please do this more..." and they should be willing to do it.  You're basically asking a guy to read her mind in regards to specific actions.

Is it really that hard to acknowledge that a woman bears some responsibility for expressly stating what gets her going?[/quote]

The thing is, for a lot of women, what they like in particular changes from time to time -- and even from person to person. (A stranger could be doing the exact same stuff and give them toe curling orgasms while the husband doing it does nothing.) By giving nebulous instructions, the woman lets any subsequent failure be the guy's fault. If she gives concrete instructions and the guy follows them, she has to take some ownership of the situation. [/quote]

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