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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a wife who has lost interest in sex. With my spouse, at least. He is at best mediocre in bed and is also a giant, repressed prude. He starts with this weird baby talkish thing if he wants sex, or will make some attempting-to-be-funny "sexy" dance. It turns me off instantly. Listen, when I'm trying to bear the thought of having sex with you - because I am NOT interested and you do not satisfy me, ever - please don't add fuel to the anti-sex fire.

I wish I could tell him this, but he has quite possibly the worlds most fragile ego, about EVERYTHING. Commenting on lack of sexual satisfaction would mean he'd never be brave enough to try again for fear of failure.

It's not that I'm not interested in sex. Trust me that there's a coworker I'd nail in a hot second. Mmmmmm.  [/quote]

Oh, this was [i]exactly[/i] my situation with my ex-husband. After we divorced, I did nail a hot coworker (or let him nail me, rather). I finally understood why people looked forward to having sex!

OP, I feel for you. Are you making sure that your wife knows you value her for more than the things she [i]does[/i] for you? I know I'm a lot more receptive when it feels like my partner wants to [i]be[/i] with me-- and that being together might lead to sex, as opposed to-- my partner wants to be with me [i]so[/i] we can have sex.[/quote]

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