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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Wife here who never wants sex, but never says no - I just go through the motions but I have no interest. DH stopped caring about my needs many years ago. I haven't had an orgasm with him in many years. Foreplay to him is me sucking his D before sex to get him hard then he plunges into me dry and it hurts like hell, but he doesn't care. I'm the default parent who takes care of our kids. He doesn't help out at all with housework. I work full time. I've tried talking to him about it but all he cares about is himself. I've just given up on trying. I'm just counting down the days until our kids leave home, then I'm gone and I have no interest at all in getting into another relationship. [/quote]

You're not alone.  I could have written this post, except for I don't even go through the motions, and it makes no difference to him.  I need help figuring out how to get myself out of this situation.  We had a long talk about this two years ago, and his response was -- oh, I thought that there was something wrong, and I felt like I was forcing you, but wow -- so sorry that you feel like this....I still have needs, so I'll only do it twice a week instead of every day now.

Seriously - self loathing and despising my spouse more and more by the day.  [/quote]

PPs, this is really bad. Your husbands are not at all concerned that they are hurting you?[/quote]

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