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Says the poster who loves unilateral statements.  OP hasn't addressed what occurred when dw left her job; quite possible he didn't object because he believed it would be temporary.

I disagree with you btw.  No one should continue to work in a job that makes them miserable, unless it is necessary to pay rent and buy food.  Not the case here.  If my dh told me he couldn't stand his job and needed to take some time to figure his life out or to be with our kids, I wouldn't force him to work, particularly if it was a financially wash in the short term. Spouses support one another.[/quote]
First, this is an anonymous board so let's stop with the nonsense of "says the poster".  You don't know who's posting what so don't pretend like you do.

Secondly, there is no evidence that a conversation like this occurred. OP was put in front of the fact. And you don't actually disagree with me, because you begin with "if my DH told me", which already implies a mutual decision.

Thirdly, no one should continue to work in a job that makes them miserable (although many do) but it's not the only job available on the planet. Who put a gun to her head to only look at misery-inducing job? Why couldn't she have looked for what makes her feel happy?[/quote]

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