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[quote=Anonymous]OP, whether you want to believe it, accept it, or not.... You're the ore woman. Plain and simple. He is lying to you because that's what people in affairs do. They lie to their current partner, and they lie to their affair partner, all so that they can continue to have their cake and eat it too.

Sorry dear, you're plan B. You're the one that he is going to emotionally leach from so that you have no energy for anyone else, without the benefit to you of actually having a relationship with or marrying YOU.

Now, you're not completely innocent either. Anyone with any awareness in life knows it's not exactly right to talk to someone else's partner in secret 2 or 3 times a day. BFFs of the same or opposite gender know their friends partner, hang out with both of them. They freely call their friend in front of their partners, and when friend calls, they call the house and the partner may answer. There's no frequent clandestine "on the way home from work" or late night calls when partner is asleep.

So, your choices are: acknowledge you're in an emotional affair (which I think you knew anyway, and the life experienced folks on DCUM sniffed out) and continue with it, or you can cut ties.

If you're looking for people to tell you that he lied to you because he's still in love with you, and it's all like a rom com, this was probably the wrong board to post on. No one is going to help you justify your actions in participating in an affair.

Get some life experience under your belt, and you'll understand that this kind of scenario plays itself out all the time. You can choose to play, or you can choose to run your life under honest pretences. [/quote]

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