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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, your wife probably doesn't feel sexy due to her weight gain. Not feeling sexy is a HUGE components to a woman's libido. Instead of this "poor me" mentality, have you tried romancing your wife? Buy her some lingerie, cook her dinner, learn some massage techniques. Learn how to seduce her and how to seduce her well. Learn some new sex techniques. You have to give her something to want and look forward to.

I was where your wife was with sex about once a month. My husband had your same poor me mentality and it was all my fault that he had to go elsewhere. I said to him, well if you put as much effort into our relationship as you did this other one, maybe things would be different. A light bulb seemed to go off. My husband figured out how to seduce me and now sex is all I think about...3-5 times a week.[/quote]

THIS exactly!  But OP already shot down suggestions he put some effort into other things... no according to OP this is unfair and too much work for him.  Maybe he should just buy a real doll or something...[/quote]

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