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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's peculiar that "having respect for yourself" is often code for "acting in conformity with someone else's more conservative moral code." [/quote]

I think it's peculiar that people think they should be able to escape the consequences for their bad behavior by attacking those who call them out on it.

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And this sort of attitude tends to form an underlying foundation of a lot of "feminist" writing on blogs these days - and I call it "feminist" because it's not actually feminist at all. And I say that as a woman who has proudly called herself a feminist her whole life. But I think bullshit like accusing everyone of slut-shaming and celebrating bad behavior because it's "empowering" or "liberating" or "fighting the patriarchy" is disingenuous.[/quote]

Nonsense. People are being called out for hateful, destructive name-calling. Sleeping around doesn't harm anyone; it's nobody's business if you do. Name calling harms people and is directed at harming people.

You're being "attacked" for being a jerk. Jerks are very harmful.[/quote]

Once again, you have made the common error of thinking that you are arguing with one person. These are two different posters; I know, because I am one of them.

And I have not called anyone any name, nor has the other poster you are quoting, so far as I can tell. I have not, therefore, by your own reasoning, harmed people.

You, however, just called me a jerk. I guess that means you are hateful and destructive and want to harm me.  :? Interesting rhetorical technique you've got there.[/quote]

*shrug*

You are using scare quotes around "feminist" for people who don't agree with your sex negative attitude.  You are playing the victim card because someone called you out for slut-shaming. You are being a jerk.

I'm perfectly comfortable giving back what you are putting out to the world. If you act like an aggressive jerk, I will be an aggressive jerk right back.  If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. [/quote]

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