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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a lot of the differences between grandmothers' involvement in their grand kids are culturally based. I'm guessing OP's mother is Caucasian American. Asian and middle eastern grandmothers wouldn't dream of putting a volunteer job over helping their daughter with their newborn. Its just a cultural difference in priorities. [/quote] So if the mother had a paying job and chose to work more than she had to instead of taking time off to help, is this a better excuse? People are getting hung up on whether she has a good enough excuse. Barring ill health, she wanted to be there, she would be. [/quote] yes, it would be a much better excuse, and it could be a great "excuse" depending on what the job is, and what the particular event is... hilary clinton not babysitting chelsea's kids is a whole different game from some retiree with plenty of time on their hands prioritizing travel, classes, volunteering etc.[/quote] Disagree. It's a matter of priorities. A pregnancy gives a parent a lot of advanced notice to take leave. [/quote]
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