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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Remove a chunk of your salary from the available pot.[/b] See if, after a time, your resentment subsides. Take more control. Sounds like you need that to be happier. Don't find fault with your husband for your unease.[/quote] If my DH did this we would have serious problems in our marriage, not because I want his money, but because he doesn't trust me or feel that our marriage is a partnership. If your DH did the same, and you guys have agreed to keep your money separate, fine, but if you start to do this just after you start making a lot of $, then you may find bitterness and resentment down the road.[/quote] NP but I don't see why she couldn't just position it as a (perhaps very large) emergency fund. Adding on to my prior post about retirement funds she could do the same with that as well and earmark portions of the salary for their retirement fund as well as for the childrens' college funds. [/quote]
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