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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]M here, and married.  I do not expect to date again, so the answer would be no.  But, when I was about thirty,  I kept running into the same woman at events -- concerts, etc.  The concerts were part of a summer music festival on campus (I was in grad school), and day of the performance tickets could be had for next to nothing with a student ID.

So, I kept being seated next to her...over and over.  We would chat...After about 5 or six events, we took a walk and decided to go to the next one together.  Things started progressing...but she would always stop.  She admitted she was a virgin....I did not care.  But, she was also terrified of sex.  Not for religious reasons or anything, but terrified.  I suspected sexual abuse, but she would not say (I did not push the matter).  I never got beyond second base.  And I was tagged out at second...[/quote]

Ok, but that's clearly an extreme case. Not everyone who is a virgin at that age is a survivor of sexual abuse. And there are many suriviors (including myself) who enjoy fulfilling sex lives because we are with the right partner.[/quote]

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