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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with Kim, as long as she is willing to do the following:

For the love of god, please call your mutual relatives and urge them to go to Jen's party and not to yours. Assure them that when you return from vacation you will have a brunch or other casual gathering (not strictly a "birthday party") at which you will serve cake and the family can sing happy birthday to your DD. Do not lower yourself to Jen's level by putting everyone in the family in the spot of "choosing" between you, or running themselves between 2 different parties. Tell them not to come, and be sincere about it. Just do the friends party.

If Kim can do this, Kim wins. Otherwise, she is being almost as much as a PITA as Jen is.[/quote]

YES, my thoughts exactly. The grandparents and the rest of the family have to deal with this drama too. What are they supposed to do? How are they supposed to choose which party to attend? If Kim doesn't give a shit whether they come to her party or not (as she says), then why not just do a friend-party and be done with it. The sisters are putting their parents and family in the middle of this, and don't seem to care a bit. Yes yes yes, Kim, please advise your parents and family to go to Jen's party with no ill-will whatsoever.   [/quote]

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