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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in my early/mid-thirties, never married.

One divorce (provided it was at least 2-3 years ago, I don't want to be with anyone who is on the rebound, or hasn't worked out their issues/baggage surrounding their ex) is fine. Many of my friends are divorced once, and so I know that young marriages often don't work out, even with good people, and that some people do learn from their mistakes.

Two divorces there would have to be some extenuating circumstances. E.g. one very young marriage that failed quickly, a second where the spouse cheated or they got married drunk in Vegas or something).

Three divorces: Nope, nope nope. I'm not interested in dating anyone more than 10 years older than I am, and someone who has been divorced 3 times by their early 40s either does not put enough time into trying to work on a marriage, or has not spent a suitable amount alone reflecting on what's wrong with them/why they keep choosing unsuitable partners.

Either they are afraid to be alone, or are so sure that they are not the problem/unwilling to self-reflect that they refused to take the necessary amount of time between marriages to examine what went wrong, why it went wrong, what their role in it was, and what they would do differently in the future. Either way, not someone I'm willing to date. [/quote]

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