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[quote=Anonymous]Most 13 yr old girls having sex aren't having sex with 13 yr old boys. It is the 15/16 yr olds that they think are cool. In order to compete with the 15 and 16 yr old girls, the 13 yr olds have to act and dress older and be willing to do more to get these older boys. If you look on instagram at some of the 13 yr old girls accounts, you will see what I mean.  It often really isn't a great dynamic. Also many of the 15/16 yr old boys are experimenting with drugs / alcohol so then the 13 yr old girls get pulled into that.

13 is also very young given how kids are raised here to be dealing with contraception (and doing it right), STDs (that can happen regardless of contraception, pregnancy and decisions about pregnancy, rejection and emotional pain. Really sex at 13 is pretty much asking for problems. Kids at 13 are not responsible or independent or mature enough to deal with everything that come with being sexually active.

I think the posters who are fine with it either beat the odds themselves or come from cultures where very early sexual activity is the norm (girls being married as preteens). [/quote]

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