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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also, look at the title of this entire thread again:
"Having a hard time accepting my son for who he is".  I mean, coming from his own Mom - that is repulsive.  The more unlike the Mom the kid turns out to be, the better, for both him and society. [/quote]

Stop with the judgment already.  I give her lots of credit for being honest.  How many parents secretly feel that way and would never admit it?  [/quote]

Why withhold my opinion, or judgements?  I mean, this IS a public forum, right?  There is also a reason why she posted this anonymously, versus registering with her actual name, right? [b]While there MAY be other parents whom feel the exact same way, let's wait til that crowd shows up.[/b]  Meanwhile, the OP is projecting all her insecurities and faults onto her own kid.  For two people with highly educated, economically successful lives, at least according to her, they seem pretty transparent and shallow.  So, I give credit to the OP for posting her story, yet I am not going to agree with it.  There are some species in nature that kill their young.  But we are humans, aren't we?  It sounds like the OP wants to start all over with another kid....[/quote]

If you've been reading the posts here, you'd see that crowd is already out in force.

Seems like someone is either a perfect parent, or needs a little introspection.   My guess would be the latter in your case.   If OP wanted to start over with another kid, I doubt she'd come here and expose feelings she clearly is uncomfortable with.  She was asking for help, not condemnation from someone whose children are hopefully more open-minded and compassionate than their parent. [/quote]

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