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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, OP, this just was not feasible. Way, way too long to leave a ten month old. Why on earth didn't you fly back when they called you? I am sorry, but I honestly think it was unfair and irresponsible. I really do.

I would apologize, again and again, and just leave it for a while. [/quote]
Really? Fly back? [/quote]

Um, absolutely. If I knew my ten month old baby was not being cared for, missed me and was not going to be able to remain with family, yeah, I would get on a plane. Guess I'm just crazy like that. [/quote]

Wow - way to jump to conclusions! Although FIL's wife asked me to make other arrangements, the baby was being well cared for and I was able to make arrangements for him to stay with others. If I had really felt it was dire, we definitely would have come home but I was assured he was fine, they just didnt realize he would need so much attention and were unprepared to offer that kind of attention all weekend.  BIL was around over the weekend (with his own kids) and took the brunt of the childcare from Fri night until we returned and the older 2 kids went to their friends on Sunday morning.[/quote]

Good lord, you burdened everyone including your BIL so that you can have a week away. You are so selfish.[/quote]

You know what - everyone in this story will survive. And burden or not, that is what friends and family are for - to help out when needed, even if it is a once in a lifetime vacation opportunity. OP- I wish things went smoother - this will be a funny story to tell one day and your baby will not need therapy over it - she has already forgotten what happened![/quote]

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