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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"However, the fact that he got defensive and didn't acknowledge your feelings and POV here raises a red flag. I mean, if he found something on you that could signal you were cheating with someone."

Except that OP has said that she tends to get jealous, so if this is a pattern of mistrust on her part then the BF may justifiably have been annoyed at feeling like he has to defend himself/reassure her yet again.[/quote]

It would be helpful if OP said whether being jealous is an actual real problem of hers or that it's gut-based and she keeps writing it off as jealousy. In my more naive days I used to write off my gut feelings as paranoia and jealousy-- "oh, stop being that way! Of course he has female items around his room. Um, he had other girlfriends way before you, and he had a right to have had other girlfriends. And if he doesn't want to throw away his ex's hair clips, so be it. It's his choice!"

In most cases I had been correct to feel that way. (He was still in love in with ex. That's why her clips were still around.)  [/quote]

She has said in various posts that she is jealous by nature but that her boyfriend has never done anything to make her suspect something's up. Other than these movie tickets.[/quote]

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