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[quote=Anonymous]The simple answer is that if he wants your marriage to get through whatever it is going through, he needs to put his woman on hold, at the very least, and focus his emotional energies and all of his attention on your marriage. She is a distration that will not allow your marriage to heal. Once your marriage is healed, if you can get there, then you can discuss whether he can see her again, but he should agree to tell you in advance about every time he sees her. I wouldn't worry about what has happened in the past, let go of whatever is in his email or texts. If you want to fight over those things, you have already lost. You may need to decide whether or not you care if he did have an affair. If you want your marriage to succeed, this is your first step. Then work to respolve it.[/quote]
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