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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Y'all gonna be fighting for months over this shit even if the broad is out of the picture.  The worst is yet to come.[/quote]

OP, I'm having a hard time believing that this is the end of the story for you. What are you most afraid of here? That he will indeed leave you at some point, you will have to divorce him, you will have to live on your own as the primary caregiver for three small children, you will not have enough money, he will move on and marry Jane, have a kid with her, etc? From what you've told us, this isn't just he goes to lunch with a good-looking coworker and you're pissed and he apologizes and that's it.

Sure, you're mad at her, but he opened the door for her as well. She has very little to lose here. She's divorced herself, unhappy and it makes her feel good to ruin your marriage. But your husband responded to her and let this all start. He's not some poor guy who was seduced here and now he needs you to snap him out of the spell.  you really feel like spending the rest of your life standing over him with a rolling pin?

You said you're worried that he had a plan to leave you... the only reason he hasn't is because leaving you would be a massive pain in the a$$. He wants his cake and to eat it too. Lots of guys cheat, but they want to keep the status quo. That's why so many women who think the married guy they're having an affair with with leave their wives and kids for them are sorely mistaken. He could drag this out for years. Eventually Jane would get tired of it, but as long as she's not in love with a better and truly available man, she'll go along with it. [/quote]

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