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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't you speak your parents native language with your children?  I know so many Asian women married to white men who give their children Anglo names and speak only English.  I wonder why they don't want to pass down their heritage.  It makes me wonder if the whole reason they marry white men is because they are trying to erase their Asian heritage.  This is why I ask,  I'd really like to know so I don't make these assumptions.  It just seems odd and I can't figure it out, especially when the grandparents almost always solely speak the native language.  How do these children communicate and learn from their grandparents with such language barriers?[/quote]

I'm guessing the reason OP ignored this question is because there may be some truth to the self hate theory.[/quote]

I bow down to you oh superior one.  :roll:

Let's see, many European ancestors of whites had their own language, but most didn't learn German, Polish, Gaelic, Dutch, Swedish from their parents and continue to pass it down.  Must be some truth to that self hate theory.

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Touched a nerve I guess.[/quote]

This is OP.  I haven't posted in this particular conversation before, but I will say that you touched nothing, except of course, that I am not happy that there are people running around who take one look at my DH and me and just HATE us.  It is mildly upsetting.  IR couples have done nothing to you, and yet you seem to hate them so.  So, yeah, you touched a nerve in that way, in that I see your posts and I am saddened that there are people who just hate us for marrying.  And my poor children will run into people like you and you will probably hate them too.  I just hope my kids never get someone like you for their teacher or something.[/quote]

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