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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As many or as few as my daughter (or my son, for that matter) wanted to have while staying safe and healthy, physically, mentally and emotionally. In our family, we don't slut-shame. [/quote]

so 100 would be ok if she felt safe and healthy?[/quote]

Sure. Honestly, I think 100 wouldn't even be that high if you end up marrying late like late thirties, early forties. Some people have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding the one.[/quote]

At those ridiculously highly fictional numbers, it's obviously a person who needs Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous:  http://www.slaafws.org/

Growing up in DC in the 1980s, I've known an handful of men and women like this. They're always tortured. They're either driven by repetition compulsion or some other affliction. Almost all want a solid, loving relationship with someone who really cares about them. Nobody wants to be used, certainly not seriously.

However, I honestly think you're being disingenuous in your post and that you'd never consider LTRs with anyone of that description.[/quote]

Some people see sex as an enjoyable way to get some necessary physical release and don't view every partner as a potential ltr. Just a little FYI.[/quote]

Another flip response by a non-parent who doesn't take the call of the question seriously.  I bet you haven't had sex in months yourself.

Grow up.[/quote]

Lol. Are you for real? Are you seriously going to say you've never had sex with someone *just* because you thought he/she was hot with no expectations about what might happen later? Or at least been tempted to? I kind of feel sorry for you if so. And fwiw, this is coming from someone who met her future husband at 22 so my # isn't even that high relatively speaking. [/quote]

I'm for real. I met my future husband at 23 and yes I've been attracted to many people that way. I just don't like to have sex just because some is "hot." My heart gets in the way. I want a relationship. I got one with a DH who feels as I do. It's lasted almost two decades now, and we're raising kids who have remarkably similar personalities to ours, so they'll probably end up with the same attitudes.

If you can't handle it, you can grow up, too, but I suspect that most people, deep down inside, are looking for someone to love. Causal sex just isn't it.[/quote]

Of course most people are looking for love. My point is that there is nothing wrong with having casual sex while you look for it. [/quote]

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