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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm pretty sure MANY pps have been saying there should be a compromise somewhere in the middle so that both partners are making "sacrifices" (for lack of a better word).  High libido spouse has to be happy getting it less than desired and low libido spouse has to be happy having sex more than desired.  It isn't one or the other.  It is a compromise.  I don't know why this is so hard for some people to understand.  I don't think anyone said the low libido spouse has to have sex every time the high libido spouse wants it.  [/quote]

I agree. That is what most people are saying. The outliers are the 's/he shouldn't expect sex as a part of a marriage' (those are likely the refusers talking), and the s/he has a right to cheat (those are the cheaters talking). Everyone else is saying that sex is a normal healthy expectation in a marriage and that both parties need to find a balance between needs, wants and desires. Demanding or refusing leads to problems. [/quote]

To throw it out there, I was one that said I wouldn't blame a man for cheating and I have never cheated nor has my husband. He was in a sexless marriage before ours and I understand the frustration he went through which is why I wouldn't blame a man for straying. [/quote]

You got sloppy seconds. 
I guess you dont mind baggage.
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Lol was I to marry a 40 year old virgin? [/quote]

no but preferably unmarried and no kids[/quote]

Luckily, he was able to walk away as if it never happened since they never had children together. [/quote]

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