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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm pretty sure MANY pps have been saying there should be a compromise somewhere in the middle so that both partners are making "sacrifices" (for lack of a better word).  High libido spouse has to be happy getting it less than desired and low libido spouse has to be happy having sex more than desired.  It isn't one or the other.  It is a compromise.  I don't know why this is so hard for some people to understand.  I don't think anyone said the low libido spouse has to have sex every time the high libido spouse wants it.  [/quote]

Speaking as a high libido female with a low libido husband, the low libido spouse has to acknowledge that the high libido spouse is going to be frustrated sometimes and need to take care of him or herself. In the cases I'm aware of, the low libido spouse doesn't want to stumble on evidence that the high libido spouse is pleasuring him or herself.  My H is fine, intellectually, with knowing that I need more frequent sex, but I'd never embarrass him by letting him know how much. Being married and having to sneak around to get off is pretty ridiculous IMO.[/quote]

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