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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]and a true and "real" effort to support first famly preservation , (before) adoption takes place[/quote]

Your other ideas may be good, PP, but this is a horrible one.  That will just punt more kids into the foster care system and make it much much harder for them to find permanent good families.  People want to adopt babies.  They just do.  LOTS and LOTS of people want to adopt babies - to the point that they are going all around the world to do so because it's so hard to do so here at home.  We should absolutely not make it a goal to preserve the bio family.  In fact, more bio mom should be provided information about adoption and how it can be the best thing for their children particularly when the bio mom cannot even afford to take care of them.[/quote]

You have to be one of the worst people in existence. I'm sad that you have no soul.[/quote]

As an adoptive mom, I can say that the pp is right and that many many times they know when a baby is born that the child will then end up in the system. If the encouraged placement before having to step in and take the child, the child would get the benefit of a stable home, attachment, and reduced chance of future disruptions.[/quote]

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