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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am saying that a common talking point for many people is travel. Other topics include food, sports, children, etc. Does it make a big difference if you talk about these things in person, on the phone, by email, by blog, or through FB? If I email about travel, I don't think that makes me any different than other people who communicate about other subjects through other ways. This is just another example of how people enjoy attacking some of my points for no particular reason.

The real point is when I talk about subjects that hint at wealth, it seems to me that some people are envious. I fear I may lose their friendship. To this, someone pointed out that it's all my fault because I lack oral or written communication skills. I am not saying that everyone is envious, but I definitely think some people are. I also feel uncomfortable talking about these subjects, and some snarky replyers disagree and claim that I boast.

My spouse says that I am too quiet. I need to boast more to gain people's respect. I need to share my successful habits with others rather than just keep quiet.  [/quote]

You don't seem to get how patronizing and off putting your posts here are ("you should share your successful habits more and boast more"? really?). Which leads me to believe that your emails are likewise a burden to read and respond to. For some reason, you think it's because you have it so good that people hate you for it (here you blame others for attacking you "for no reason"). My guess is, they just don't like you. That would certainly be understandable.

Focus on people who like you and respond positively to your emails. Why are you even trying to keep the envious crowd in your orbit? It feels like you think you deserve to be liked by everyone so, whenever someone doesn't like you, you need to find a fault with them. JUst move on.[/quote]

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