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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She did it once.  I don't think one mistake is worth breaking up a long-term marriage and family for.  I don't condone what OP did but I think she is very remorseful and would not do it again. [/quote]

Cheating isn't a mistake - it is a choice, a decision, and in her case a planned and thought out one. She made her decision. Whether or not that decision means the end of her marriage should be left up to her husband.  [/quote]

You are confusing an accident with a mistake.  Sometimes you can do something that you[b] later know[/b] was a mistake and you regret doing it.  I hope the architect can keep his mouth shut and move on.  I hope OP can recommit herself to her marriage and be the partner her husband deserves.  [/quote]

Don't let someone who is not your husband put his penis in you. Don't put your penis in someone who is not your wife. It's not complicated. Easy enough to know it's wrong in advance. Unless you're selfish and faithless. [/quote]

She was married to her husband for 24 years without cheating.  I think people make mistakes and can change.  I used to be unflinching in my feelings about such moral failings but my kind DH changed me with his rule that "I believe in giving everyone a second chance."  We are complicated creatures. [/quote]

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