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Reply to "I want my husband to reimburse me for half the income I lost during maternity leave"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP- you guys need to get counseling. You guys have created a "every man for himself" dynamic that, no matter what people tell you here, does not work in a family structure. Separate acounts are fine as long as you are working towards a common goal and have family needs as the priority. I do not see that here. You each are more worried about keeping what is "yours." The way I think about it is that the FAMILY took a financial hit with your maternity leave but the flip side is that the FAMILY benefitted from you being home with the baby. But you guys have things set up in such a way that yYOU would take a hit. What I am saying is the system you guys have will NEVER result in shared sacrifice. It is too separate. [/quote]
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