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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As for your career, if you're this far along in years and can't manage to work your way past these hardship posts, that's your own failing and perhaps, rightly or wrong, she expected better.[/quote]

PP, out of curiosity, are you FS or military?  Do you really think it works this way?  You do your best to bid on the posts that are best for your family and your career needs, but the "needs of the service" will always come first.  It is a hard balancing act sometimes.  However, I feel DW never really thinks about the exact characteristics of a post of assignment she wants, i.e. am a I willing to trade off a cushy place in Western Europe for a hardship assignment with good schools and great job opportunities, or do I should want to laise around the post going shopping, getting my manicure done, etc.  If DW tells me that employment is her priority, then I think she should be looking with me at the posts with good employment opportunities and not so much focused on a Paris or a Rome that has none.

And, FWIW, I have made decisions for years now that were what she wanted and it generally hasn't helped in the getting promoted and moving up category.  
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