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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would NEVER take my child out of a good school because I am not in or invited into a particular social group.  At school, I choose my own friends and not the other way around.  I like people who share my interests.  I call them friends.  I call the others acquaintances.

Also, I am full tuition pay, single mom, $130k a year.  My full tuition check spends the same as a check from someone of significant means.  At the bank, the two are not placed next to each other and assessed which one is better.

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Rock on, PP, this is called maturity.  You do not have to be in with the in-crowd, nor do you have to be surrounded by people exactly like you -- instead, be yourself and reach out to build friendships with people who share your interests and values and sense of humor -- regardless of income level, where you live now or where you grew up, what kind of job you have, etc.  Isn't this what we hope our kids will learn?

OP, you said you have friends at your child's school, yet you feel like an outsider.  I would suggest that you consider why you can't just be happy with your friends.  If other people care about shoes, cars, purses and country clubs, let them.  You can care about what you regard as important.  In doing so, you will set an excellent example for your child.         [/quote]

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