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[quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one thinking that we receive exactly what we project? It seems that you, the op, are longing for the deep rather than superficial connection that includes genuine caring and closeness. So I advise you to focus on giving it. You will not find it when going through the motions of activities or charities or clubs. However, all humans surrounding you crave the same thing and you don't have to go to extreme lengths to find them. Instead of waiting for someone to connect with you, connect with the next person you have a conversation with, instead of waiting for them to ask about your life, ask them questions, find out what their concerns are, ask them a lot of questions but be genuinely interested. It cannot go one way. No matter how busy people are, we all want deep interactions, even the introverts. In fact, introverts make the best friends because they are not seeking constant stimulation and usually can focus on developing a deeper friendship. [/quote]
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