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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have had my husband do the same (stay out late, get too drunk, not come home). It happened, not regularly, but was the start of a phase where he felt he wanted freedom and to have more fun. We married young and had kids relatively young and went through rough times, so maybe that's why it was triggered. I don't know. I found it completely unacceptable and even worse, I also found out he was lying about where he was crashing.

Anyway, in our case, it wasn't about an affair. It was about wanting to live the glory days that our peers were living... If we didn't wrestle with the issue immediately it might have expanded into an affair (just another extension of living the glory days and not wanting to be tied down).

Occasionally, dh will still get too drunk to get home safely. It happens about once a year. As a person who basically never drinks too much, I have a hard time understanding those who do.

But besides this, he's usually a fine upstanding man.

Maybe it's because he's so upstanding most of the time that when he actually does let loose, he goes too far?

Who knows. I still don't think it's acceptable or normal, but I want you to know that it does happen and this is my best explanation for why it happens in my marriage.[/quote]

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