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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why does everyone here assume the birth family strong-armed the genetic parents? Is there any evidence of that? Does anyone even know if the genetic parents wanted another baby?[/quote] The genetic parents' lawyer said they were devastated to learn the law would not be on their side if they fought for custody.[/quote] The birth parents didn’t create “the law.” The law is what it is. And their lawyer was right. That doesn’t mean the birth family strong armed anyone.[/quote] Nobody said they created the law. Stop tilting at windmills. You asked if "anyone even [knew] if the genetic parents wanted another baby" and I told you how we know that they wanted THIS baby, which is their baby. The birthing parents made it clear they would fight for custody, the lawyers made it clear to the genetic parents that they would lose that fight, and trying to have any access to the child through a personal agreement to stay in its life was the only path forward. They were strongarmed. [/quote] Both families wanted the baby. The law said the birth mom gets the baby. Not strong arming. Just what the law is. [/quote] What a neat pivot from claiming they probably didn't even want the baby to "suck it up genetic parents, you lose."[/quote] You’re the one pivoting. The dispute is whether the birth family “strong armed” the genetic family.[/quote] Obviously they did. The law doesn't force them to keep her.[/quote] “Not giving the kid away” = “strong-arming”? Got it.[/quote] Her bio parents never gave her away either. But that's ok to you? They should just not have a chance?[/quote] None of it is “okay.” This was a horrible, negligent tragedy. Both sets of parents have equal and valid ties to the child.[/quote]
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