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Reply to "Who do you think is more delusional about who’s “in their league”? Men or women?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I’m an attractive slim woman of high NW. I was surprised that men who are overweight get[b] upset or offended[/b] when rejected. When I feel somewhat romantic not not sufficiently horny to progress I would offer them to work out with me, change the diet, do hiking etc. They don’t want change shit instead resorting to blaming me for “being too picky”. If he’s a VP of an investment bank he thinks that his deep pocket compensates for dad bod. He in a way settles for women who are being dishonest with him and their feelings. Men don’t care if women truly desire them or not. That’s concerning. [/quote] A man worthy of the title should not throw any type of tantrum if he is rejected when asking a woman for a date. However, if he asks a woman out on a date, and her response is, "No, thank you. Would you like to be my hiking buddy?" or "No, thank you. Please lose weight and work out," he should have enough self-esteem to politely decline. A woman does not owe a man a reason for declining a date. A polite "No, thank you" is all he should need to hear. Likewise, he has no obligation (or reason) to listen to someone evaluate his "dad bod". In our society, men initiate dates with women (in most cases). This means that almost all men will be turned down at some point. If a man cannot handle that with grace, it is time to get out of the game. Finally, to the PP. Please learn to write so that your post is readable. Your grammar is substandard, even for DCUM (e.g., "I feel somewhat romantic not not sufficiently horny", "He in a way settles for women"). Even better, invest in an AI grammar checker. [/quote] Actually, you are wrong about my responses to him. I would simply offer him to be friends until he drops weight. Some men prefer to stick around in woman’s orbit to get a chance. Others don’t [/quote]
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