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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in the exact same situation as op. 52 and don’t even want to be touched leave alone have sex. It is so repulsive. I have tried lying down and go through the motion but DH does not like that. Can’t pretend anymore it is enjoyable!!! DH is very frustrated and I do feel bad making him go through this but I am totally done. If he will be active for next 10 or 15 years, he is going to get nothing from me.  I do think he should just move on and find someone else. [/quote]

why don't you offer him to go out and get it? This is abusive if you know where you stand but want to tie him down for the sake of marriage. You can still be married and let him enjoy outside the home. [/quote]

Yes I have told it’s ok for him to fulfill his needs outside or he can move on and take divorce. I totally understand his side. He wants to stay in the marriage though. Things are not pretty at the moment [/quote]

I also want to add as a young couple, infidelity would have been a complete no no. But with decades of marriage and growing old, attachment has taken a backseat. It is what it is. [/quote]

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