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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like you do a lot for him per your follow up posts, and the conversation is just the last straw because it feels like he's trying to make you responsible for his emotional well-being on top of everything else. [/quote] I don’t think I do a lot physically or time wise, but I’ve had to help him with healthcare decisions because he just becomes a deer in the headlights and freezes. I’ve had to make some executive decisions about him moving here (he was super agreeable and said he wanted to move but again, he would just freeze). I thought it was normal and appropriate because he is so old. Now his life is on track so luckily I don’t have to make decisions or organize much for him, and that’s when the resentment started, ironically. I liked putting his life on track but now when it’s on track I feel like I want to move on. Not sure what to make of it -OP [/quote]
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