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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The conversation is on why she didn't come and talk to you before doing it and not the second piercing. The conversation is that your thoughts on older decisions can change as she gets older and a "no" from 2 years ago might not be a "no" today. You would have wanted to understand what she wanted to do and why and you might have changed your mind. What I would focus on is how to reinforce that she needs to come talk to you about things even if she knows you will disagree. This is a second piercing but if she doesn't trust that she can come and talk to you about this, does she feel she can talk to you about sex? drinking? drugs? issues at school? Hopefully the answer is yes but that is the conversation I would be having. [/quote] Agree. The ship has sailed on whether she can get a second piercing. So focus on the above. [/quote]
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