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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she just wants friends and a community, what's wrong with the "lowest tier" houses? If all she wants is friends and a community, why would she care about the presumed prestige of a sorority? For that matter, if all she wants is friends and a community, why rush at all? There are many other ways to make friends.[/quote] This. I feel for your daughter; it can be a brutal process. I went through rush and got my first choice and was later a Rho Chi (a Panhellenic guide for the girls rushing). Rush can be crappy for sure, but the process IS about finding your people. It seems as though your daughter was approaching the process all wrong. She was gunning for the most popular sororities (most likely the “hot girl” sorority). She wasn’t making genuine connections throughout the process. The sisters at rush (at the more desirable houses) can recognize this. Plenty of people are unaffiliated. If she truly wants a community, she should pledge. [/quote]
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