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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m literally being told by the divorced dads: I want a family structure; I want another kid; I have money and can support a family.

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Right, they have the assets so to speak. They need to hire a program manager. They understand they probably need to give the woman her own child to make it attractive.

I'm not saying it's a good or bad thing. Its just different than a 21 year old guy looking to settle down and support a new family. This is something they already have and having a wife makes it easier.[/quote]

Yeah, this is it.

It's a cliche, the divorced dad who gives the new wife one kid to keep her happy.

In many het marriages the woman carries a lot more of the load at home. That's why divorced women of the same age are so happy to be divorced and just want a FWB in their free time. They do NOT want to overfunction for a man ever again.

If you are late 30s and always wanted to settle down and have kids, then you're both providing something the other wants, and that's fine. But go into it clear-eyed about the expectations.

My ex just chewed out our teenaged daughters in front of his affair partner-turned-girlfriend for not filling his stocking (he did not ask them to?). He never filled my stocking, mind you. But he was very sad to discover that the Christmas Fairy didn't magically visit him. His girlfriend said, "Hey, don't make them feel bad!" She's got her own full time job and 3 kids, but I bet you this time next year, she's the one filling his stocking. Because getting nothing gave him the sadz.

I mean, if he can find a woman who will make life better for him and by extension my kids, I won't complain. His house never has food, he never cleans up when the dog pees on the rug, etc. I'm sad that I did those things for him, but at least it was my job as a SAHM. Now I'm getting alimony NOT to have to deal with his shit, and you best believe I will never be taking on another man's shit again.[/quote]

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