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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He been divorced for eight years (been together 1.5), he has two kids who are 17 & 14, and he does want kids with me.[/quote]
A divorced dad pushing 50 with kids who are only about a decade younger than you and are teens at that.

OP, this man is getting a lot out of you -- the physical, someone he can control because you have much less life and relationship experience than he does, a fresh uterus, a new sucker to do the lion's share of caring for his next set of kids. He's also getting a soon-to-be nurse and caretaker who will not be in the position to receive care from him because he's going to predecease you if your marriage even lasts that long.

What TANGIBLE benefits are YOU getting out of being with an old man with this much baggage? ([b]No, having your ego boosted about how mature you are while also being so much better looking than women his age isn't a benefit. [/b]Those manipulative compliments will dry up once he has you trapped with marriage and a baby.)

Do you even really know why his first marriage ended? Believing his self-serving version of events does not count as "knowledge."

I don't think you're going to listen because if you had the insight to know what a TRAIN WRECK you are signing up for, you wouldn't be here asking if there's any way your relationship makes sense. Just bookmark this thread and return to it WHEN your life goes off the rails thanks to this man. You were warned. [/quote]
The ego boost comment hit hard. op, think about it![/quote]

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