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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are of Chinese descent. We would never invite anyone to our house and expect them to pay hefty for entertainment or anything, or leave them out for group activities we initiate. That’s just inconsiderate and rude. I am appalled by this thread.[/quote]

It's just cultural differences.

There are some reasons for it.

I had Asian friends who got married.  They were very careful to record the exact amounts of cash they received from each gift giver.  It was explained to me that their parents needed to give that exact amount or more to the donors' children or it would cause loss of face.  The bridal couple also knelt on the floor/and bowed to the parents. And at some point the family threw something heavier than rice at the bride (figs? candies?).

My wedding didn't incorporate any of these ideas.  They aren't a fit with my tradition. But I wasn't appalled by them.[/quote]

What?  Paying for a guest *you* invite has nothing to do with "cultural differences".  It's simple good manners.
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