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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women's self improvement does not increase their partner satisfaction outcomes, in fact it maybe inverse correlated because they naturally have higher standards.[/quote] Men frequently sacrifice their happiness for their family. Women often sacrifice their family for their happiness. That's what I think of when I hear prattle about "self-improvement." So many divorces happen when some therapist tells a woman to "self-actualize." She goes out and "improves" herself. Meanwhile, the husband is grinding away, providing for his family. Then they divorce and she discovers he actually WASN'T the source of her unhappiness. Happens all the time.[/quote] Really? I know several divorced women and all are happier post divorce. The general feeling that I see is relief like a huge weight is lifted from their shoulders. [/quote] The divorced may or may not be better off. The children are the ones who suffer.[/quote]
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