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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I appreciate everyone's replies. Going back to work, I think, will be good for my mental health.

I'm about to inherit some money, and while my initial thought was to use it to pay off debts (husband likes to spend money), I'm now totally rethinking that and keeping it all under my name and not depositing it to our joint account.[/quote]

100% put that money in your own account. And the fact you are in debt with only one parent working is pretty terrible. You need to get a grip and take ownership of your life.[/quote]

Keep that money for yourself. Put it in a separate account at a bank unrelated to anything you have jointly, and whatever you do, do not commingle it.[/quote]
Make sure not to tell him or anyone else about it and to tell your family not to tell him about it. The level of greed and malice that will come out of this man if he learns you have your own money will surprise you. All of his thoughts will be about divesting you of that money. Don't be stupid.[/quote]

OP here. Unfortunately he already knows - my mother informed us about the incoming check since I had to get a document notarized for it in advance.

It's not a crazy amount but it would certainly help pay down much of the debt we have. So, I have mixed feelings about it.. 🥴[/quote]

He doesn't have to know when it arrives.  Just say not yet.

You need to get your parents on board if you are thinking of getting out.  They need to be aware to keep stuff to themselves and they need to prepare to support you.  [/quote]

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