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[quote=Anonymous]Same poster as above: I read the post from top of page two. It’s wise.  Most (All?)  of my gains have been informal - never on paper. Attorneys actually told me that behavior will trump the agreements over time. (Look to past behavior to predict future behavior, right ?)

In my case, we both have advanced degrees. Money was fine. (I can always have more!)

This did not make us smart. We tripped over ourselves toward the final act of our relationship. Our D process felt like needless dumpster fire.  What a wasteful process and I was so distracted for way too long.

I then decided to lean into my EQ and make myself happy. I also worked on myself and did some reckoning.   Fast forward: That shift meant being almost out-of-the-way nice to my former spouse/Father.   It was hard at first, but I do it for my non-traditional family. That family is ALL of us — me.

I feel like I am driving things forward and being strategic. My kids seem fine to me and I am feeling pretty darn good. [/quote]

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