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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]what do you think about woman who expect their man to pay for everything and never go 50/50. If you are a man and would do it then what do you need or want to see in her?[/quote]

You are grossly taking your question out of proportion or reality. 1. There is a difference between never contributing or starting contributing when people are exclusive 2. Counting each time 50/50, Venmo back and forth, going Dutch looks very transactional to me as a woman. I have a companion like that with whom I go out to book clubs, opera and jazz at times. But I feel nothing sexual towards a transactional man who always bins counts. 3. There are ways she can contribute without going 50/50 in restaurants in front of everyone to show how "liberal" and financially independent she is. Travel, contribute to expensive joint purchases like cars, taking on more household or childcare duties (some GFs drive their partners' kids to sports practices, never heard of it?) 4. Men and women are not equal. In dating, a man is almost ALWAYS older, more professionally established and better situated in life. It would be unfair to ask a younger woman to pay 50/50 with someone more financially successful, anyway. If this is what he wants, he should date women his age or older, and of similar financial stamina[/quote]

I disagree with so much of this it’s not even funny.

1. It’s “bean counting” not “bins counting.”
2. I would never date someone with kids, you will always be second string, so I’d never be in the position of “driving his kids around.”
3. It’s not about “looking liberal and financially independent,” it’s about BEING so.
4. Men and women are equal and I don’t date daddy figures. You can have those older, wrinkly ballsacks all to yourself. I’m too young for that shit.

Are you Eastern European? I feel fairly certain that you weren’t born here. [/quote]

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