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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you sure he doesn’t plan to remarry quickly? Then the new wife would simply continue instead of grandma.[/quote]

This is the most pressing concern. The grandmother is red herring. He could easily be planning to have a girlfriend watch the kids while he travels.

[b]You should definitely ask for right of first refusal.[/b] [/quote]
Op said several pages ago [i]“No way am I going to contort myself to fit his travel schedule after divorce as if we’re still married and then sacrifice the career I need to survive just to appease his need to look like a good dad while he is unwilling to sacrifice a single thing to see his kids. There are a million jobs that pay quite well for someone like him that don’t require travel every week or every other week. He just can’t put his ego and need for external validation above his responsibility to his kids.”[/i]

She has no need to ask for right if first refusal since she’s clear she doesn’t want to be flexible to additional custody time.[/quote]

This is a good point. It sounds like OP wants 50/50 with no right of first refusal, even if she can’t articulate it.[/quote]

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