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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Let me try this again.

I’m a married mom of four. I’m not triggered by any of this.

I think you are lying to yourself though if you think a lot of adult women who enjoy sex are waiting until they are months into a relationship to make sure that it’s a long term partner. People who want to have sex usually do so after a few dates. It doesn’t always work out.

There seem to be a lot of men on this website who seem shocked that they have a low libido spouse when it kind of seems like that’s exactly what they were looking for.[/quote]

You are a married mom of four? Super. I am a married dad of six. However, I am not sure how either fact is relevant here.

You appear to be confusing a situtition (e.g., while dating in her 20s, a woman slept with Man A because she thought they were headed toward a relationship) and pattern (e.g., while dating in her 20s, a women slept with 20 men because ____ (insert a reason for each guy here)). A high body count results from sleeping with many men, not from sleeping with a man "after a few dates" and not having it work out. Please affirm you see the difference between a singular event and a pattern of behavior.

Women have the same rights as men to rule out a partner based on personal criteria. If either a woman or a man felt that a potential partner's past promiscuity would interfere with their relationship prospectively, they should rule them out.

Finally, why do you keep asserting that a woman's "low libido" leads to low body count? Sadly, it is common for some women to have sex with many men, not because they enjoy it but because they are looking to meet some other goal (e.g., the need for acceptance, an affirmation of their self-worth, etc.).  It is also common for some women to have a low body count because they only enjoy sex in the context of a long-term relationship. Is not the essence of feminism for each woman to decide on her own what she wants (and does not want) in selecting a partner?

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