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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.  If you feel like your partner is going to judge you for your sexual history and financial status, then they probably aren’t the right person for you.  You don’t want to live your life walking on eggshells.  [/quote]

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Big relationships and marriages, absolutely. Someone you went on a few dates with? Does anyone care?

Financial history is similar…Does a potential spouse need to know about the time you overdrafted? No. If you have debt (student loans, credit cards, etc) or a gambling addiction or similar you should definitely discuss. I used to work in finance and dated a lot of finance bros and a PE guy who I had been dating for two months drunkenly told me one night that he bet $30K on that night’s football game (he was blackout and forgot he told me the next day…red flags all the way). He also drunkenly let slip he was kicked out of a casino for counting cards when he was away for his cousin’s bar mitzvah and just happened to drive 2-3 hours with friends to gamble. He definitely had a problem and it seemed way worse than needing to pay back student loans.

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Ugh gambling is SUCH a red flag.[/quote]

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