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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]quote]DP here, but I get this. I don’t understand why women are fighting you on it.
If you are a woman who likes to have sex, you should marry a man who likes that about you. There are plenty of them out there.
It’s ridiculous to hide this fact about yourself and go on to spend your life with a man who thinks that a woman who enjoys sex is shameful. You will be miserable together.[/quote]

The issue is that a woman with a low body count may love sex. Typically, this type of woman enjoys it in the context of a long-term relationship. And, it's far from given that a woman has a high body count simply because she enjoys sex. The idea that "I enjoy sex" does not mean that "I need a high body count to do so".

Many women love and enjoy sex, and have done so with two or three long-term partners before getting married. Often, these women would have actually had more sex with a steady, long-term partner (and learned more about what they enjoy) than another woman who had 10 short-term partners during the same period.

Many women who claim their total number of partners "doesn't matter" are actually triggered by the thought of being judged by that number. Admit it, let's move on.

If you find a man who does not want a woman because she has had a material number of previous partners, move on. The great thing about dating is that everyone can look for someone who meets their needs and accepts them for who they are. [/quote]

I’m a married mom of four.  That’s why I’m on a mommy website.  I’m not triggered by any of this. 
 
I think you are lying to yourself though if you think a lot of adult women who enjoy sex are waiting until they are months into a relationship to make sure that it’s a long term partner.  People who want to have sex usually do so after a few dates.  It doesn’t always work out.

There seem to be a lot of men on this website who seem shocked that they have a low libido spouse, when it kind of seems like that’s exactly what they were looking for.  
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