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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd drop him. The men I know who don't make the effort with their significant others to recognize their birthdays and anniversaries are selfish and self-absorbed. ADHD is not an excuse. You deserve better. [/quote]

But they went out to dinner! He probably thought that *was* recognizing it. Because it is.[/quote]

OP here. Ok fine, I’ll bite. I had to ask him when we were going out for my birthday because he didn’t proactively set something up. And then he planned a dinner last minute, was late picking me up, and at dinner he said he meant to bring flowers but ran out of time and looked really sheepish like he knew he was not bringing his A game.[/quote]

Just dump him then! But I don't know why you're making it about a tangible gift when clearly it's about how he just isn't that into you and it shows. [/quote]

My brother, 60 now, has undiagnosed ADHD. He has been like this all his life and his life shows it. Maybe just stay FWB. [/quote]

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