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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP dipping my toe back in here. Food for thought on all the comments. It’s also a bummer because his birthday is next month, and he loves the gifts I have given him (so happy to receive them and wears them all the time), and now I don’t want to be a one-sided chump and give him something material. (Not expensive stuff fwiw.) Bracing myself for this comment too lol. I’m sure I’m just supposed to suck it up. But I’m just going to take him to dinner to match his energy. [/quote] Okay, he's probably going to be very happy with that. Because what gift people need to understand is this: non-gift people don't actually care whether they receive gifts. That is what makes them non-gift people! He probably likes what you got him, showed enthusiasm because that's the social expectation, but does not care if you get him more gifts. So your plan sounds perfect, except that you're doing it to retaliate so it'll have a weird dynamic. [/quote]
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