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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] You’re still rationalizing. You didn’t get randomly assigned to a venue. You chose a venue with a capacity limit that means you have to make tough choices, and you’re choosing not to extend plus ones to the wedding party so you can invite other people. It’s rude as hell. The fact that other clods do it doesn’t mean it’s not rude. You’re right about one thing, though; this probably does go over better with twenty-somethings who have not yet been in serious, long term, adult relationships and aren’t used to being treated like adults yet.[/quote]

Work on reading comprehension. We are planning a wedding for one of our kids, never said it was mine. And I am defending OP but never said wedding party does not bring a guest, and in fact there is no wedding party but a large wedding. And to the other poster who suggested it is discriminating to distinguish between people who are married and those that aren’t in long-term relationships or have a steady SO - talk about a lack of logic. That’s just crazy.[/quote]
Work on your own reading comprehension. You’re not replying to the poster who thought you were planning your own wedding.

Not extending plus ones to all adults in one’s wedding party — not mere wedding guests, but the people who are the closest to you, expected to attend all the related bridal events and assist you, and spending the most time and money on your nuptials — is rude and either thoughtless or selfish.[/quote]

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